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I've been staying out of certain discussions on my friends list, but I feel I ought to say something. So this is all I have to say.

Being rejected hurts. Being rejected by friends hurts worse, and watching those friends talk about what a great time they had without you can be even worse.

That said, I understand why things happened, I don't hate any of you -- I'm not even angry with you, just sad that things happened the way they did -- I hope you don't hate me, and I wish you all the best in the coming endeavor.

(If you don't know what I'm talking about, you're probably better off.)

Date: 2006-01-25 04:46 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] greenlily.livejournal.com
Seconded.

Date: 2006-01-25 04:48 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] qaqaq.livejournal.com
I'm sorry if I caused you any emotional distress by leaving. It didn't come from any personal dislike of you; quite the contrary -- I thought it was the best thing to do to maintain our friendship. Our differences in Hunt philosophy have absolutely nothing to do with my feelings for you as a person, and I want that to be crystal-clear, as I consider you a joy to be around.

Also, for the record, I was only aware of one or two other people who were leaving. I was probably nearly as shocked as you were. I can't speak for them, of course, but I'm pretty certain that they all feel the same way I do about you personally.

So, no, I don't hate you -- quite the contrary! -- and I certainly wish you and your teammates all the best in coming years.

Date: 2006-01-25 05:20 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] stevie-stever.livejournal.com
Though I can't speak for your particular situation, let me say that not all rejections are intended to be hurtful. It pains me not much less to see my friends undergo hardships like these than it does to go through them myself.

Date: 2006-01-25 05:34 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] toonhead-npl.livejournal.com
I don't quite know all the details behind how and why everything happened (and prefer to stay in the dark, actually) but I'm also kinda glad it came out in the open and people had a chance to explain.

Date: 2006-01-25 06:54 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] aneequs.livejournal.com
**hugs**

Date: 2006-01-26 06:18 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] bunyip.livejournal.com
I'm sorry, old friend *hug offered*

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